Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success. ~Henry Ford
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In the past 48 hours I’ve been incredibly stressed out over some deep shit and drama that’s been going on in the blogging community. I haven’t slept which is adding to the sleep deprivation I have from the news I got last week. You know…that I have cancer for the third time?
I’m pissed. No, I fucking angry and it’s time for me to open my mouth here because no one seems to be listening to me. It seems that there is a lack of respect for my request to stop the hatred and I’ve had it, absolutely had enough of it.
In fact I think that it’s pathetic I have to address this. God, I’M PISSED!
You know, I’ve got cancer and I’m realistic about my situation. What I want and what’s real may be two different things. I want to kick it’s ass. That may not happen no matter what I do. That’s real.
What’s real are my two daughters, Cam and Teenie. Since 2004 they have lived with cancer. They were ages seven and four. Seven and four. After I recovered from cancer their grandmother, Dude’s mom, got cancer four months later. They watched her suffer…and I mean suffer…until she died a year later.
Cam and Teenie watched my health decline after they lost their Mom-Mom and then I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer again in February 2007. There was no family vacation last summer. They spent every day visiting the hospital. That was their family vacation.
In the fall of 2007 my children had to deal with cancer again when their grandmother, my mother, was diagnosed with uterine cancer.
And here we are in 2008…I have cancer again.
These two children have not a family vacation with Dude and I since we went to Disney World in November 2004…just a week after I was diagnosed with cancer the first time. Dude’s mom took our entire family…thirteen of us. My dream was for the four of us to go.
We have never, never, ever had a family vacation with just the four of us…just Dude, Cam, Teenie and I. We don’t have the financial means to do it either. It’s just not an option.
I can’t afford to miss a week of work even though my take home pay is only $378.00 a week. Pathetic for a college graduate I know however that’s what happens when you’ve had cancer and been ill. I work as a temp so there is no vacation time. There’s no disability time either. Once I’m incapacitated there’s no more income.
So, why am I pissed?
Well, when Miss Ann decided to put together a raffle with an afghan she had no idea that things would snowball. Other people started adding prizes. People started adding banners to their sites. Things grew quickly and then the finger pointing started.
Drama ensued. There were other people who decided she wasn’t trustworthy and called her out publicly on their blogs. Someone else apparently got called a “flaky bi-polar bitch” and now she’s turned things into a drama.
I’ve got news for you people, I’ve had bi-polar disorder since I was 17. I’m fully functional and take medication. It’s an illness, just like cancer, not a personality defect. STOP IT!
I’ve reached the point where I’m ready to ask Miss Ann to return all funds to everyone who donated because I’m so upset. I didn’t ask for the drama. I hate it, it has me sick to my stomach…physically sick to my stomach and I just can’t take it.
The sad thing is that it costs a lot of money to go to Disney. I’ve been pricing trips all morning and since we are going on such short notice it’s probably going to cost us more than $3,000. Plus I have to equate my loss of salary for a week…$378.00 and the cost of food for four people while we are down there.
I don’t want to put up my own donate button because it wasn’t my idea. Is that what you want me to do?
What are you all gaining with the drama? Did you consider the impact on me? Did you consider what I’m already dealing with? Did you think about how hard it is for me to keep it together right now? Do you understand that I’m trying to stay as positive as possible and this doesn’t help?
Look at these faces…I forced them to put Mini Mouse ears on. See, how thrilled they were sarcasm. Give me the chance to make them wear these on an entire plane trip from Philadelphia to Orlando. I’m sure at ages 11 and 8 it wouldn’t be as embarrassing.
So, to those of you who keep turning this into a cat fight I’m begging you to stop. You are stressing me out. All I want to do is fight this battle against cancer with a positive attitude. Let there be a lesson in why I have this for the third time…that is has brought together an entire community of bloggers doing something good. Don’t let my fight be in vain.
And please, let me take those two beautiful children to Disney World one last time before it’s too late.
{ 49 comments… read them below or add one }
geek 04.06.08 at 10:34 am
Excellent post.
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Sodapop 04.06.08 at 10:38 am
I completely agree. The drama has been disrespectful to you and your family. I apologize for my part in it. I PPH you and am always thinking of you and praying for you. *hugs*
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Colin Brooks 04.06.08 at 10:56 am
Oh my!!! I’m very upset right now! I’m totally with you on this. They should be ashamed of themselves. I am ashamed for them!
How dare they do this? I really want to curse now.
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Nat 04.06.08 at 11:01 am
Very sad indeed. Shameful even. And don’t you dare give a cent of the money back. I know it’s not what I want. I’m pretty sure it’s not what 99.9 per cent of the people who donated want.
I want you and your kids to go to Disney and have some fun. God knows cancer isn’t fun. And everyone deserves a bit of fun. Good on Miss Ann for taking this on.
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Robin 04.06.08 at 11:08 am
I’m so glad I’m so distant from all this drama and I try to avoid online as much as possible. I do want to help you out because I can’t imagine being in your situation and I hope to as soon as possible. Personally I’d rather donate to you personally…I think it’s a beautiful thing getting take your kids to Disney.
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Wonderer 04.06.08 at 11:20 am
I am so sorry this has happened. Please try to remember that the VAST majority of people who have wandered onto your and Miss Ann’s site are not like the few assholes. Don’t let them ruin it. Don’t give them the power.
I know we’ve never met, nor read eachother’s blogs, but I have been expounding the tale of this blogging love to everyone within earshot. As a newbie,it’s been great to see that this whole thing has been so uplifting to so many people.
Please let this go. Let this post be the last you or Miss Ann think of it. Karma will come for them, Lisa & Miss Ann. This I promise you.
Ann 04.06.08 at 11:21 am
Don’t let the asses bring you down Lisa. This is a beautiful thing that the people who care about you are doing for you and your family.
Try to ignore the negative and focus on the positive.Fuck whoever don’t like it! It’s not about them.
cajunvegan 04.06.08 at 11:22 am
I don’t know if you, your readers, or Miss Ann’s readers knew about the post I wrote for you on Tuesday, but I think you need to read it (watch it) right now.
Say what you need to say, Lisa.
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Lisa 04.06.08 at 11:25 am
geek, Thank you…I needed to get it out before I imploded.
Sodapop, There is no need to apologize. I don’t want anyone to apologize. I just want to move forward and be peaceful. I realize that not everyone is going to get along, I’d just needed to voice my opinion.
Colin, Cursing is always allowed here. There was some widget thingie out there that tests your blog for cursing and this blog curses 330% more than most blogs in the bloggosphere.
I’m sure it would make my father so proud.
Robin, The people who know me in the blogging community know that I stay away from drama as well. Most of the time I don’t even know it’s happening or when I do I just watch. Life is hard enough without online drama.
I’m very humble and accepting gifts from people is so difficult for me. A few people have asked if they could donate directly to me and I tried to direct them to Miss Ann.
I’ll have to think about what to do.
Lisa 04.06.08 at 11:40 am
Wonderer, You are right and I lost sight of that. The majority of people are great, wonderful giving people. Thank you so much of reminding me.
Thank you also for spreading that goodness. You are very kind and generous in doing so…my deepest gratitude to you.
I had to write this post in an effort to let it go. As much as I hated to do it, I did.
Ann, I feel better now that I got it off my chest. Hopefully I can move forward now and this clusterfook can work itself out.
cajunvegan, You made me sob…but a good sob. I love you
Pam D. 04.06.08 at 11:54 am
Lisa,
You don’t know me. I happened to randomly stumble onto a site that had a donate badge on it and as I love all things Disney, I was intrigued and ended up reading all about you and the reason why you wanted to go to DW.
Please don’t send the money back to the donators. There will always be assholes but I’m guessing most of the people who donated, like me, just want you to have a good week with your family.
Pam
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Neil 04.06.08 at 12:04 pm
I don’t know too much about the situation with these bloggers, but it sounds like everyone’s heart is probably in the right place. People are people whatever they do, which means they get cranky, opinionated, and complain a lot. Even online. It is human nature. But you certainly shouldn’t be letting this upset you. You should focus on all the good stuff and love, because that is what helps you fight the cancer.
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Tug 04.06.08 at 12:27 pm
I’ve got nothing to add but wanted you to know I was here. You’ve got my # or e-mail of you every want to use it…
((hugs))
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kack 04.06.08 at 12:27 pm
Hi! I am one of the people who donated prizes (#23) because I cannot afford to donate $$. Our family is on the edge financially,too. That’s one reason we want to help. Y’know, communities used to do this all the time-HELP EACH OTHER! Please don’t stress! Neither you, your health or your family need it. There will always be bad people around. just concentrate on what this is- a community rallying around someone so like ourselves. we do it because we want to and because we hope that one day- if we ever need it- it will come back to us. Help us believe that some good still exists….in us and in the world.
Mattie 04.06.08 at 12:32 pm
Don’t let ignorant people get to you.
I never read your blog, or Miss Ann’s, before her post about you. I read it because of someone else’s blog that I read daily.
I immediately did what I could (donate a prize and some cash). Please don’t give it back to me. If I could help you (babysit, drive, cook), I would when you needed me to - but I can’t. This is the only way I had to let you know I am holding nothing but good thoughts and non-denominational prayer in my heart for you. And from a total stranger. Doesn’t that count for something and cancel out the ignorant, heartless and soulless negativity mongers?
I hold you and your family in my heart every day.
Nat 04.06.08 at 12:42 pm
Such drama seems silly in the midst of what you’re going through. Try to ignore, which is hard and focus your time and energy and the people and folks that matter.
I think Miss Ann is wonderful for doing this.
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Kyra (savy) 04.06.08 at 12:47 pm
Well, I have no real idea about what is going on… don’t want to (this kind of stuff is part of what I ran away from last week) but I sincerely hope everyone knocks it the fuck off.
Go nap. Go snuggle. Turn OFF the computer, and go sit in the sunshine, or hell - even the rain. It’s all beautiful, and this will work itself out without having to drag you down to do it.
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yoshi 04.06.08 at 1:56 pm
I forgot what I was going to say after reading all the comments. Damn memory is going. But yeah. Just had to say I’m here and reading. I’m with you.
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Danalyn 04.06.08 at 2:10 pm
Lisa, if you refunded my donation, I’d just send it straight to you, instead.
Anyway, there are lots of things I want to say…but I was telling someone that the only way it’ll stop was if you, yourself, actually posted about it.
I know it was hard, but I’m really glad you posted this.
…now…let’s see if people actually read it…
Divalicious 04.06.08 at 2:15 pm
Great post. I’m glad you came out and said something even though you shouldn’t have to. Hopefully people will listen and stop already.
I’m not a happy camper with this drama crap.
Anyway, love ya sweetie and I’m here.
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LizB 04.06.08 at 2:45 pm
Visiting for the first time via TenseTeacher. Don’t know you, but keep the money. Some people are assholes ; don’t let them steal your precious energy. Fuck ‘em. Take those beautiful girls to see Mickey.
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Colleen 04.06.08 at 2:51 pm
Lisa,
Please focus on the positive energy that is being generated for your family and let the negative energy blow away. Your mind needs to be clear and focused to help your body heal.
“The only person’s behavior that you can control is your own” is something I often tell my children when they get upset over what someone else has done or said. Let others deal with their own issues — you have a big enough fight of your own to deal with. I wish you peace.
Chatty 04.06.08 at 3:29 pm
WTF is going on?? I go away for one day and all bloody hell breaks out. My philosophy? Tell them to fuck off and go about your business. They aren’t worthy of a stomach ache & you’ve got more important things to worry about then their fucked up crap. This chaps my ass. CHAPS my ass.
Paula 04.06.08 at 3:37 pm
Lisa, I’m so sad to read there is drama going on. Drama is always with us it seems. Some more than others. My life for example. (smile) I don’t know you and I have no clue who Miss Ann is but that didn’t stop me from donating and I would NOT want my donation back! I know people get worried about scams and stuff but I feel very sorry for the mistrusting soul who doubted that this was a real and/or worthy cause or doubted Miss Ann’s motivation or ability to make sure that every penny gets to you.
As for the woman who got called a name, just deal with it. I was called “an insane drama queen” on someone else’s blog not that long ago. Since the person that wrote that is a self-righteous asshole I’m not letting it bother me one iota. (giggle)
And that is a gorgeous picture of your sweet girls. If you don’t go to Disney and have a hell of a good time, I’m going to be the pissed one. And I’ll unleash a furious drama on the blogosphere the likes of which has never been seen before. GO HAVE FUN!
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SJ 04.06.08 at 4:17 pm
Lisa, I believe strongly in the power of positive energy. I hope you will now be able to gather masses of it around you, and be fortified by it. All of us, pissy or not, would gladly stand shoulder to shoulder and fight on your behalf if only we could. I know I would, and I’ve only known about you for a week.
Personally, I wish you WOULD set up a PayPal donation account where we could all donate directly to your medical/expenses fund. I’d happily contribute many more times, and I know I’m not alone in that. Please consider it.
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Tense Teacher 04.06.08 at 4:30 pm
I don’t really know what’s going on (been out of the loop since the tornado mess), but I have a good idea. I am ashamed for the people who feel the need to constantly stir up shit and then play the martyr when others respond in kind. This whole effort was supposed to be nothing but good — a bunch of people doing something to help a friend in need — and a few are ruining it. Don’t let them get you down, hon. You don’t need this shit.
I’m glad you wrote this post.
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Not a Granny 04.06.08 at 4:45 pm
I’m so sorry that there are such insensitive people out there who only like to stir up trouble. And I am sorry that they are causing you more stress at a time when that is the last thing they need.
I am a new reader also to your site. I’ve read Miss Ann for some time and really enjoy her. I don’t know what the drama is, I must not read the other blogs.
Take the trip. Make memories with your girls. The Disney Magic is alive and well.
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Not a Granny 04.06.08 at 4:46 pm
I’m so sorry that there are such insensitive people out there who only like to stir up trouble. And I am sorry that they are causing you more stress at a time when that is the last thing that you need.
I am a new reader also to your site. I’ve read Miss Ann for some time and really enjoy her. I don’t know what the drama is, I must not read the other blogs.
Take the trip. Make memories with your girls. The Disney Magic is alive and well.
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Kris 04.06.08 at 5:02 pm
I am Kris from the store Outside The Box Jewelry. I have been oblivious to the drama obviously. I haven’t been following all these other blogs. All I know is that I want to help. I refuse to participate in ridiculous pettiness (now that I know it’s going on). There are stupid people out there…ignore them. You and your family is what is important…even though I don’t know you personally. You take those donations with thanks forgetting about all the other crap and you take your family to Disney World. You have enough to worry about. I suggest not even bothering with all the other pettiness. FOCUS on you, on your kids OK?
With all my family’s love in Alaska and Alberta
Kris
Mary 04.06.08 at 5:25 pm
Lisa, I’m not a regular reader, although that will be changing. Drama sucks, in every way, shape and form. I admire you, and all the good people in your blog circle.
Off to find the donate button cuz I got paid on friday.
Don’t send a nickle back. “Working together is sucess’
Lisa 04.06.08 at 5:27 pm
Pam, Thank you for donating to Miss Ann’s efforts. I think she would personally drive to Philadelphia and hurt me if I actually made her return everyone’s donation. I’m not speaking on her behalf but in the years I’ve known her…I’m just going on gut instinct.
Tug, Thanks
kack, Thank you for participating and adding a prize. I understand that there will always be people who don’t get along. This just got a little nasty. I’m ignoring anything more going forward now that I got it out of my system.
I do believe in the good more than anything.
Mattie, Absolutely it does and thank you for reminding of that. What you did is the very thing that has been carrying me since I got the awful news last week. It does count for something…it does cancel that out.
Thank you for your comments. It also reminds me that there are 203 comments about gratitude on the post where I shared the news I had cancer.
Nat, I think Miss Ann is fabulous for doing this. I wish I could take her to Disney with us.
Kyra, This is the kind of stuff that makes me turn off my computer too so I went out with my two wonderful daughters and saw a movie. I snuggled with my eight year old in the theater. I’m going to shut it off shortly until tomorrow. I hope.
Danalyn, I think Miss Ann would hurt me if I had her refund everyone. I was really pissed when I wrote this earlier.
I saw your comment about me writing to stop this which is why I decide to say something. Plus I’d really like to sleep, ya know?
Divalicious, I hope so too because I wasn’t happy either. I feel better now that I got it off my chest.
LizB, I won’t let anyone steal anymore of my energy because I don’t have a lot of it. Thanks for stopping by…I love Tense, she’s a doll.
Colleen, Very good quote. I will tuck that one away. I have redirected my energy towards the positive.
Paula, Thank you so much for your comment because you make such great points. I wish that someone would call me an “insane drama queen”…wait, I’ve been called that in real life by one of my ex-boyfriends back in my 20s. Bastard. Actually I owned the title back then.
Key, back then. I did drama back in my 20s. Proudly, with a tiara and a thrown. Today I’m 41 and retired. Thank you God.
Sj, Although it may not seem like it today, I am immensely grateful for the way the blogging community has rallied around me. I really am blessed.
I’ve received a lot of email about setting up a donation button on my site.
Tense, I didn’t know there was a tornado. OMG. WTF? WHAT? I need to get out of my own blog. Are you O.K. What the hell happened????
Not a Granny, Welcome to Clusterfook. I’ve also been a long time reader of Miss Ann and can’t thank her enough for what she is doing for my daughters…and that is where the focus should be…on them.
I love the Disney Magic and want them to have it to carry them through what’s going to be a rough time.
Thanks.
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Lisa 04.06.08 at 5:32 pm
Kris, I’m glad that there are only a few people involved in it and that there are so many more people that far outweigh the bad.
That’s the reason I wrote today…to remind people that the focus is on my girls.
Thanks so much
Mary, Thank you soooo much for getting the quote! And I thank you for donating to Miss Ann’s efforts as well. I appreciate it so much.
Lisa’s last blog post..Stop The Drama
annie 04.06.08 at 5:33 pm
I apologize, to you and only you.
I’m a bitch sometimes but I had no idea people could be so selfish and cruel in a situation like this. Sometimes tragedy brings out the worst in some people. My husband and his family are like that, they turn it into a drama.
For most people, it brings out their kind and loving hearts, which is what most people have shown and that’s what your family deserves.
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Cheryl 04.06.08 at 5:41 pm
Long time reader, first time commenter.
But, I felt the need to come out now and say a piece. Someones always got to start drama in a time when it is least needed. Ignore their stupid ass’s and go on. What Miss Ann is doing for you is a wonderful, amazing, caring thing, and some people just need to put the petty shit behind them and focus on the main thing, and thats you! You and your daughters deserve this more than anyone I can think of at the moment! I want to see new pictures of those beautiful faces with new minnie ears!!
Just Fook’em!! Do your thing girl, let those who are donating prizes and money do theirs, and let the haters stare in amazement at the outpouring of love for you and your family!
Cheryl
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S 04.06.08 at 6:14 pm
It’s sad how a few negative people can ruin a beautiful effort by so many people.
I will continue to pray for you & your girls.
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Mishka 04.06.08 at 6:27 pm
Hope the drama is over now and you can get back to what you need to be doing rather than worrying about drama that should not even be there.
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sizzle 04.06.08 at 7:06 pm
I really hope the drama has stopped. I don’t know anything about it except what I have read here but it makes me angry and sad when people are shitty to each other- particularly when there is a common good at hand. I really hope you can get all the money we have donated and have a spectacular trip with your family. That’s the LEAST we all can do to help you!
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Rachel 04.06.08 at 7:58 pm
Dear Lisa….
The first thing I learned about you was a post about your situation and sending your family to Disney. Without knowing you or anything else I made a donation….many questions could be asked. However the only question I have is….what can we do for you??!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I think you are just a hop skip and jump away from me. I live in NJ. And yes, I may be a complete stranger to you, but I would be happy to help in any way I can, just please let me know.
Be strong and fight hard….and keep smiling….
Rachel C.
Miss Britt 04.06.08 at 8:49 pm
big fat fucking SIGH
Love you.
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Lisa 04.06.08 at 9:54 pm
annie, I love you for being a bitch. I know that you would always have my back. It was all a little weird for me. You know me, I’m pretty low key when it comes to drama. I’ll watch but I’m usually out of it. That was some deep shit. I hope it’s over.
Cheryl, That’s what I’ve decided to do…just keep on moving. I felt much better after I wrote this post. Fook em…I like that.
Mishka, I think it’s safe to say that it’s over…yeah!
Or at least I’m done with it.
sizzle, I hope it’s over. Like I said previously…I’m finished with it. I have to concentrate on some more important things like a procedure I’m having done tomorrow.
Rachel, I’m grateful to people like you who give in a time of need. I do the same thing even when I don’t know someone. I’m probably a lot further from NJ than you think. I’m actually 50 miles from Center City Philadelphia closer to Reading/Pottstown.
I really need help finishing the Hannah Montana / Rock N’ Roll bedroom I started for my 8 year old. I made a commitment to myself that I’d finish it in the next two weeks.
And I have a back splash to finish in my kitchen…that’s been an unfinished project since Cancer 2007.
Anyone up for wallpapering and tiling??
Lisa 04.06.08 at 9:59 pm
Britt, Yes, but I’ve taken a big, deep cleansing breath…
Jo 04.06.08 at 10:13 pm
It pisses me off that people have to be so fucking ignorant that they can’t think of more than themselves and either give or shut the fuck up and go away. Nobody is MAKING people donate to your trip or the raffle and to call into question Ann’s integrity is just shitty.
I hate when people think they have to add their two cents with their mouth instead of their pockets. If ya wanna give then give but once you do it then let it go. If you can’t give without strings attached or giving your fucking opinion where it’s not wanted then DON’T DONATE!!
Some people are just too fucking stupid to get that and I’m sorry for you. You deserve this trip. Your children deserve this trip. Your family as a whole deserves this and MORE.
I’ve got another quote for you. I know, new reader and all I can do is leave you quotes all the time. LOL. I don’t remember where this one came from but my oldest son really likes to use it with people like you and Ann are dealing with…
“Fuck you ya fucking fuck!”
Don’t worry about them. Take care of yourself and please get some sleep. You need your strength so you can kick some serious cancer ass.
Hugz
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Karl 04.06.08 at 10:35 pm
I’m firmly with Hilly on this one. Peace.
I don’t give a fuck who said what to whom in the past, who stabbed who in the back. Nobody has stabbed ME in the back, so consider me Switzerland. Neutral, baby, neutral.
It’s all about you, Lisa. I consider myself blessed to have found your blog. And I agree with Jo…give or don’t give. But once you do, let it go. I truly believe that what you put out into the world will come back to you in your time of need.
Good vibes, that’s what I want to be known for. And for helping get you and your family to Disney.
Keep on keeping on, Lisa. I’ll put the smackdown on anyone who continues the petty sniping.
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Miss Ann Thrope 04.06.08 at 11:24 pm
Me and Danalyn deesighded 2 steel awl yer munney n tayke Rachel to Disney World n if ur nise, we mite tayke u 2.
I don’t know Lisa. Sometimes I just don’t know. But I do know this, hatred is a sad, sad thing.
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Danalyn 04.06.08 at 11:29 pm
Oh yeah, that’s right…I totally forgot that me and donna planned to take that money and go to disneyworld ourselves…we *might* take you…but first, you’d have to kiss my toes and make me a margarita.
schmutzie 04.07.08 at 12:12 am
I am so sorry that some people had to forget what was important here. I donated because I’ve beat cancer once and live with the fear of its return every day. I hate that others could wreck what my good will and that of many others could mean for you.
You deserve nothing but the best right now.
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Vikki 04.07.08 at 12:47 am
I have no idea what’s been going on, Lisa, but don’t you stress about it. You have enough on your plate right now. Let us worry about the assholes out there. Those of us who are donating are doing it because we LOVE you, and YOURS. Don’t let jerks ruin it for you. Please.
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J. 04.07.08 at 1:22 pm
Gawd, what’s WRONG with people???
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Lily 04.10.08 at 12:04 am
Drama sucks… That sucks… It’s so inconsiderate for people to make it about THEM when it’s about YOUR family…