Dude and I, The ‘New’ Dynamic Duo

by Lisa on July 11, 2008 · 22 comments

in Acid Reflux Moments, Dude, Monkey Bastards

Cessation of work is not accompanied by cessation of expenses. ~Cato the Elder
~William Henry Beveridge

Yesterday I received a joyful piece of mail from the Unemployment Office. Those kind folks wanted to inform me they were refusing my claim, once again. Their refusal was based on facts provided by the Temp Agency…all false facts.

It infuriated me and it also infuriated Dude.

Last night when I told him about the letter he yelled, “THAT’S IT! Tomorrow we are driving up to that Temp Agency and getting THIS straightened out once and for all!”

He was frustrated because for five weeks he knows that I’ve been trying to get the agency to change what’s in their system because their payroll person keeps providing the Unemployment Office with the incorrect information. Like, I REFUSED WORK. Like, I WENT ON A JOB INTERVIEW. Like, I WON’T TAKE A JOB AS A CSR BECAUSE I PAID 8OK FOR A COLLEGE EDUCATION.

Get it straight…it was 90K.

None of those facts are true.

So, Dude and I drove to the Temp Agency and marched into the office. I requested to speak with the owner. Ten minutes later she appeared looking surprised to see me. She escorted Dude and I into a small interview room. We all sat down and I proceeded to give her the story…THE FACTS.

She said, “Are we going to court?”

I said, “No, not yet…”

She told me how her unemployment taxes are through the roof so they do every thing they can to deny claims. I told her I understood all about the unemployment taxes that she is accessed however there is right and there is wrong…and what her agency is doing is wrong. They are providing false facts to the Unemployment Office.

I made it clear that I cannot take a job that is stressful for 8 hours a day and that I offered to provide medical documentation. I assured her medical documentation will be provided to the Unemployment Office stating that fact.

We had a lengthy conversation and she was very nice about the entire situation. I could tell that she does NOT want to spend a day in Unemployment court as well. She promised to investigate what happened in her office and personally look for an assignment for me.

I thanked her and informed her that I’m sending a big ole’ APPEAL to the Unemployment Office. She asked if we would be going to court AFTER that. I wanted so much to say, “Most likely sweetie, most likely.”

As Dude and I walked out of the office and out to the parking lot I said, “THAT WAS AWESOME! You totally had my back!” because he threw his 99 cents in as well. I’m telling you we were like the Dynamic Duo. My Dude, who is normally shy and quiet spoke up and threw in his constructive criticism about the situation AND stood in as my witness.

I totally think I love him more than ever now.

Today I’ll be working on my APPEAL so I can send it certified mail. Mediation…here we come. Thank GOD I have a witness for some of the really STUPID things the owner of that Temp Agency said. Woo Hoo!

I swear if I don’t win this time then they system is totally corrupt.

Kudos to Dude!

{ 22 comments… read them below or add one }

1 BlondeBlogger 07.11.08 at 12:19 am

With all that’s on your plate, you should not have to be dealing with shit like this. :( Yay for Dude though. He’s a good guy!

2 ocb 07.11.08 at 12:31 am

Good for you two! I can’t believe she just sat there and admitted that to you! Thank god that is over.

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3 Willie G 07.11.08 at 12:46 am

Good for you. Not everything is about profit. Sometimes it’s just karma that needs to be protected.

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4 Mrs. F 07.11.08 at 12:47 am

Don’t you love when your husband does things that remind you of why you married him? That’s awesome!

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5 Sarah 07.11.08 at 3:05 am

Good for you guys! That’s frackin’ some big bullshit that they are doing to you! I hope this appeal works out and you don’t end up still having to fight with this temp agency place.

And Dude rocks too! I love it when people have my back, makes me feel all powerful. Tee hee.

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6 Lisa 07.11.08 at 7:00 am

BlondeBlogger, I could whine and say that but it is what it is and I have to deal with it. If there is one thing I can say about Dude though, it is that he is a very good guy!

OCB, I could not believe all the things that she admitted to me. All things that I will be quoting her on in my appeal.

Willie G, Exactly and if she didn’t get that then karma will get her eventually.

Mrs. F, I do love it when he does those type of things. This is exactly why we are renewing our vows because of the way our marriage has re-evolved.

Sarah, It would be great if we didn’t have to go to court. I have the feeling the owner would like to stay out of court because she would have to lose and entire day of work just to appear.

It was great that Dude had my back like that, especially in that situation.

7 Miss Britt 07.11.08 at 9:22 am

That is awesome. What a rush that must have been for him to support you like that!

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8 Christine 07.11.08 at 10:57 am

Good for you!!! Face the beast head on!

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9 that girl 07.11.08 at 12:41 pm

You go GET it girl! and Dude!

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10 Jen 07.11.08 at 1:57 pm

I can’t believe she admitted that they do what they can do deny claims! What a dummy!

11 Asthmagirl 07.11.08 at 2:21 pm

I’m so happy to hear that you’re protecting yourself this way. No one wants to pay high unemployment taxes, but when you’re a temp agency that’s part of the deal.

I’m glad Dude had your back. I remember when my shy husband spoke up in a planning meeting for our disabled daughter. There was tension during the discussion of her diagnosis… and the school psychologist leaned in and asked “and what do you think about this, Mr. X?”… Without missing a beat, he said “I agree with my wife. She knows what she’s talking about”. It totally shut the lady down. It also made me feel like we were a strong team, right when we needed to be! I imagine that’s what it felt like for you as well! Timing is everything!

I hope this appeal works out for you!

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12 Karl 07.11.08 at 3:38 pm

Rock on, Dude! Rock on!

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13 Lynda 07.11.08 at 4:58 pm

I so hope you take them to court if things don’t go through this time because of their misinformation.

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14 Lisa 07.11.08 at 7:57 pm

Miss Britt, I certainly was and it was very effective!

Christine, That we did!

That Girl, We did get it! The owner called today and she is going to comply with my request so that I get Unemployment Compensation. Let’s see if she follows through.

Jen, Well, at least she was honest.

Asthmagirl, I understood her point of view completely and that she wants to avoid having her tax rate rise.

They say it’s the shy ones you have to watch out for.

Karl With a K, Had to throw the ‘K’ in there…Dude totally rocked.

Lynda, Hopefully it won’t go to court. The owner called and said she would comply with Unemployment so let’s she if she keeps to her word.

15 hello haha narf 07.11.08 at 8:38 pm

i just love hearing that you two are a team on so many levels. wahoooooooooo!

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16 Anissa @ Hope4Peyton 07.11.08 at 11:14 pm

That just flat out rocks! Teamwork is the best and it’s always cool when you know that your partner has you 100%.

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17 Mary 07.11.08 at 11:39 pm

Lisa, I’m so happy for you and Dude. I was denied unemployment once, and my employer totaly backed down when I called bullshit. I only collected one check, but it was worth it. On a completely unrelated topic my web order of “Jane’s Krazy mixed up Seasonngs” came in today. Hello tomato salad!
Keep fighting.

18 Lisa 07.12.08 at 8:46 am

Hello Ha Ha Narf, Now if I could only get him to Co-Blog with me once in a while…LOL

Anissa, I was great having him as a witness AND having him on my side.

Mary, Good for you for standing your ground and even if it was only one check…you deserved that ONE check!

Awesome on the Jane’s Krazy Mixed Up Salt. I put in on almost everything but it totally makes that Tomato Salad. You should try putting it on eggs, pizza, chicken…

Oh the BEST…try a little olive oil on a plate and sprinkle a dose of Jane’s and use it as a dipping oil for Italian bread! Munga!

19 student teacher 07.12.08 at 8:54 am

It sounds like the owner started a company without doing any research on how to run a company.

Yay for the Dynamic Duo!

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20 Christine 07.12.08 at 9:55 am

That is great that they are finally going to be honest! What a great way to start the weekend!

21 Evil Genius 07.12.08 at 7:59 pm

The Dynamic Duo (you and Dude, of course!) ROCKS! My fingers are crossed that you’ll get this settled IN YOUR FAVOR and soon!

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22 Lisa 07.13.08 at 6:29 am

Student Teacher, She’s been in business for a long time so I think she knows how to run her business. I think she trained her staff to do everything they have to do to deny unemployment claims and they took it too far in my case. I just had the balls to do everything I had to do to correct it where most people would have rolled over and done nothing.

Christine, Now all I have to do is send the appeal in tomorrow!

Evil Genius, Thanks…all I need to do is send it back to Unemployment and wait another month…with no money.

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