Hey, Karl here.
After a couple of voicemails left for Lisa and not hearing back, which is unusual for her, I called the Dude a little bit ago and found out the reason. She’s not going to be returning phone calls any more, nor emails. No more Tweets from her.
She’s in the final, final stages now, people. So out of her mind with pain and drugs that she often doesn’t even recognize her husband or children. Dude says it’ll be “lucky” if she makes it through the weekend, though he also says it’ll be luckier if God takes her away sooner. She’s that bad.
I’d been riding her to get a “last post” done, but it doesn’t look like that happened. There’s a fragment of a post she was working on, which I’ll post here soon, but there won’t be any more posts from Lisa beyond that.
Those of you that live locally to Lisa and her fam, I know Dude and the kids would appreciate any meals brought over, since the last thing on Dude’s mind is cooking dinner right now. Everything is on hold now, just waiting for the final moment, and Dude is doing everything he can just to keep it together.
He says that the kids are taking it much better than he is.
My heart is just breaking. From here on out, I won’t be posting updates about Lisa on my blog…I’ll keep you posted here, of course. I’ve been getting an inordinate amount of traffic and email from you folks hoping to hear news. I answer it all, but it may not be instantaneous.
If you’re of the praying sort, pray that Lisa doesn’t suffer much more. Pray for her family.
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I’m so sorry to hear this. Love and prayers to Lisa, her family, and her friends.
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Aweee man…I am fighting back tears at work. I’ve followed this journey since her last diagnois.
Prayers and love sent to Lisa, Dude and the girls. I love you guys though I’ve never met you.
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I’m praying hard for Lisa and her family. I will miss her terribly.
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I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. I don’t know any of you, and my heart is broken. Prayers and good thoughts, all, and hopes for as peaceful a passing as can be, and that her family and friends are there to comfort one another and remember her as strong and beautiful.
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I will miss her. I will miss her humor, her wit, her sparkle. I pray that she goes soon and is out of this horrible pain. For her sake and for her familiy’s sake.
Much love to you Lisa and Dude and Cam and Teenie. The strength of the Internet friends and real life friends are with you all.
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I can’t believe this is the end.
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I’ve been thinking about her so much lately. I wish Lisa and her beautiful family peace and love, such a small thing to offer, yet all we really need.
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I am so so sorry to hear this.
Lisa you will be greatly missed. And many many prayers to your family.
Much love.
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Bless Lisa and her family…I hope she makes a peaceful transition. I’ll be keeping her and the family in my thoughts.
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She and her family always have my prayers. God speed, Lisa. xo
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My prayers are with her & her family. I hope she goes peacefully. So sad.
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I’m so sorry. I’m praying for Lisa, her family and friends. She will be terribly missed.
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Damn. I’m really sorry to hear that Karl. Thank you for the update, even though it’s heartbreaking.
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I’ve only followed Lisa on her blog recently but I am so sad that this is the end. She has such a sparkle about her that you don’t always see. I will be praying for her and her family.
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My thoughts are with Lisa and her family during this time.
And Karl – thank you for taking on this role. It certainly isn’t an easy one to have…
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Prayers, hugs & much love………..
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I think about Lisa all the time.
Much love and prayers to Lisa and her husband and her two girls.
And thank you Karl, for going to see her, and for doing this so the rest of us to know what’s going on.
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No, it’s not an easy role, but it’s far easier than what Lisa is living through.
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My thoughts are with her and her family.
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Bless you and your family, Lisa.
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My heart just breaks for all of you. I know how difficult this must be for you, Karl. I’m always just a phone call away if you need a shoulder. My thoughts and prayers are with Lisa and her family.
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Godspeed, my dear, Lisa.
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I’m so sorry to hear she is suffering so much. I’ll pray for her to go in peace… and for The Dude and kids to find some as well.
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Thanks for the update, Karl. And to Lisa, Dude and family go my heartfelt thoughts and prayers.
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Not a problem Karl. I will make something and get it over there asap.
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Damn.
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Through tears I find strength in knowing that she will soon have relief from the pain. My heart goes out to dude, her little ones and the rest of her family. Love and prayers have been said and sent.
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This is so sad and yet, I want the peace to wash over her and take her home. Lots of love and prayers for Lisa.
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Godspeed Lisa. Godspeed. We will see you again.
My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Always,
Samantha
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Damn it.
My heart goes out to Lisa and her family, and I pray that her suffering ends soon.
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Much love. Now and always.
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That is how my sister was when I last saw her before she died so—
My wish for Lisa and her family is that she can slip away now into peace and be carried in their hearts forever.
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God bless her and her family and I hope that they all find peace soon.
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She and her family have been in my prayers and will continue to stay there.
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Thanks Karl. I’m choking up here but I want to say my heart is with Dude, Lisa and the girls. May peace find them all.
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I am so terribly sad for sweet Lisa and her family and am praying for them all right now. May God take all of her pain away and give her ultimate healing.
Karl – you have touched my heart and reminded me of what real friends do for each other. May God Bless you as well.
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Karl – Thank you for keeping us updated on her behalf; I think I can safely say we all appreciate it!
My thoughts are with Lisa and her family.
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So much sad today. I am praying for Lisa, her family, and her friends.
Thank you Karl.
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Oh dear, I am so sorry. And I’m praying.
Steph
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The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
He leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul:
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name’ sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil: For thou art with me;
Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies;
Thou annointest my head with oil; My cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the House of the Lord forever.
~The 23rd Psalm
Rest Lisa.
It’s time for you to rest.
May you have the Peace that you seek.
And may your family have the Strength and Love to carry them on.
~Greeneyezz
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Thank you for this post. We’ve just prayed for her and her family, and will continue to do so.
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God bless you, Lisa. And to Dude, Cam and Teenie – I will be praying for you during this terrible time.
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Thank you for updating, Karl. My thoughts are with all of them right now.
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What can we say that’s not already been said?
My thoughts are with you Lisa, you and your family. x
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Lisa is in my prayers, and so are Dude and the kids, to allow this pain and suffering to end so that they may all find peace. Thank you Karl for keeping us updated..I’m sure Lisa is happy to know that her blog is in the wonderful hands of a great friend.
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Secondhand Karl Reply:
February 24th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
No problem…I’ll do my best to post here regularly, as I get news.
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I’ll be praying for a peaceful and fast passing.
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Oh God…
I’m not the praying sort but, in this case, I will start. I’ll pray that Lisa doesn’t suffer much more. I’ll pray for her family. I’ll pray.
You’re a good friend to her, Karl. Thank you for keeping us up to date on the lovely Lisa.
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My thoughts are with the entire family. I’m so sorry.
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BTW, if anyone posts a comment and it’s awaiting moderation, I’ll approve comments as soon as I can. Don’t panic if they don’t show up right away.
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I have no doubt that when Lisa leaves the pain of her body, she’ll step into a world of love and joy and laughter and will fit right in. God speed, be full of white light and love and your family as well. You were a joy and you fought the good fight. Rest now.
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God speed, Lisa. Praying for solace for dude and the girls!
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Thank you, Karl. This is a heartbreaking job and you’re doing it with class, compassion and thoughtfulness.
As always, my very best wishes and loving thoughts are with Lisa, Dude, Cam and Teenie. I have every faith in this warm, strong little family.
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I’ve been thinking a lot of Lisa and her family. I wish for peace for Lisa and that Dude and the girls get the support they need.
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Dude, I am truly sorry for your loss. Your wife was one hell of a lady and she touched many lives. I just sent a text message to her phone. I hope that you all find the peace you so desperately deserve. I am praying for your family.
Lisa, girl, I’m at a loss for words. And you know that’s amazing! Please go peacefully and with God’s speed.
Karl, thanks for all the updates. You’re one hell of a man.
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Wow. I was hoping to see that Lisa was still ok. I am praying for her and her family. Sending all my love….xoxoxo
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I know that you won’t read this, Lisa…but I hope that you feel the love and care around you from all over. I wish you peace in your final hours and hope for the journey that will continue. I feel in my soul that this is only a step in a very long one. I continue to keep your dear family in my heart. I will miss you.
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Thank you Lisa for sharing this journey with us all, you have inspired us all. Dude and girls, you having more people than you can imagine thinking and praying for you guys.
You are wonderful person Lisa, rest on my friend…all of that unwanted pain will soon be gone.
God Speed.
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I am praying for her and for her family. I hope there is nothing but peace.
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May you pass soon Lisa to peace & health on the other side. I know your wonderful Dude & two beautiful girls will have a guardian angel watching over them soon.
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Hugs
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I never thought I would seriously pray for someone’s death but seeing as how that is what Lisa wants, and obviously needs, I will pray that she goes quickly and is able to avoid any more suffering and pain for her and her family.
I’ll be sending you an email regarding food.
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Fly high and free Lisa, with the whispers of a thousand thoughts of peace to guide your way.
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Prayers are on their way for Lisa, Dude, her beautiful girls, and for you too, Karl. This is just so overwhelmingly sad. God bless all of you, and I’m praying that Lisa will have an end to her pain soon.
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This is heartbreaking news but thank you Karl for updating us on what’s going on.
My prayers are with Lisa and her family. May they all be able to find peace in this difficult time. I hope that knowing how much love and caring is coming their way from all around the world is a source of comfort.
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my heart is heavy and sick right now. I’m praying.
lisa – you will be very much missed!!!
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<3.
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My thoughts and prayers to Lisa and her family. I wish I could offer more.
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Time has passed, the Wheel has turned.
It is time for me to move on.
I will walk hand in hand with the Ancient Ones,
and with my ancestors who came before me.
Great Mother, welcome me back into your womb,
I come to you and know I am blessed,
for my life has been one I am proud of.
As I enter your world, wrap me in your loving arms,
and welcome me.
Lord of Death, I wait for you to take me,
I come to you willingly, with eyes wide open,
as my last moment approaches on the horizon.
May I look upon you without fear, without pain,
and knowing that those who walked before me,
await me on the other side.
O Ancient Ones, give me strength to take these final steps,
and allow me to do so with peace and dignity.
Let my family mourn my passing but not my loss,
and let them heal knowing I will see them again.
Time has passed and the Wheel has turned.
It is time for me to move on.
Blessed Be Lisa, to you and to your beautiful family.
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Bless you, Karl, for keeping us updated.
Peace be with you, Lisa. Comfort and prayers for you and your beloved family.
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I will be thinking of her and her family during this difficult time. May you all find peace.
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Karl, thank you for this. You have been a loving, and compassionate friend to Lisa and her family.
I new this post was a long time coming. I tried not to think about it and have always been nothing but positive for Lisa’s sake.
I can’t even imagine what Dude is going through, the girls too.
Lisa told me once that she only lived a couple of hours or so from me. If there are church services, I will most likely be in attendance because even though Lisa and I never met, she has been a part of my life in such a way I could never express to her.
There aren’t words in the English language to describe the impact Lisa’s journey has had on all of us who know her and have read her blog.
I hope that if I ever have to face what Lisa has in the past few years that I can pull it off with such bravery and class as Lisa has.
She will always, always be a part of my heart.
peace …
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I know Lisa that you will soon be at peace but I am so sad for Dude and the children. Lisa, you are such a bright light. We will miss you so much. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Reading your blog has changed my life.
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Prayers going up for Lisa and her family.
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Karl –
Thank you so much. I have been praying for Lisa, Dude and the little ones constantly and this news breaks my heart. I am so sad right now, yet relieved that her pain is almost over.
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I don’t often hate, but I hate THIS. I would do anything in my power to lessen their pain. All I can do is lift them up and keep them in my heart. *smooches* Lisa, *smooches*
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Thank you Karl for letting us know.
I am so sad for Dude and the girls. And I wish Lisa peace. My heart goes out to all of them.
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No words at all. Just prayers and blessings to the family.
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My thoughts are with her and her family at this time.
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I am new here. Never read this blog before. But a fellow blogger mentioned this situation today, and I wanted to drop in and leave a note. She’ll never see it, but that’s ok; it’s not for her. It’s for all of you, the ones who have taken the time to show that you care by being here for her, our fellow blogger.
This is the soul of what we do. For some, it’s about numbers. A paycheck. A zillion hits. But for others, it’s about the friends we make and the impact we have on one another. During the times when I’ve been down, and posted about it, it never fails that someone leaves a comment and lifts me up. I cherish the thoughts, the words, the wind it all puts in my sails.
This is why we are here. And why I keep doing it.
Peace to you, the friend I never met. Your star is shining, and we’ll keep it alive . . .
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Bless you, Lisa.
I didn’t know you until today, but I’m weeping for you and your family, and I wish you all peace.
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Having been through this with a parent, I know the agony the Dude and kids are going through, as are you, her dear friend. My prayers are with Lisa and her family and friends through these difficult hours. I pray the Lord will end her suffering, and help those left behind to remember her as the whole and healthy and wonderful person that you all first knew to love. May the peace that passes all understanding be with you all.
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Fuck. I thought I’d be better prepared for this.
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I will be keeping her in my thoughts and prayers. May God make it quick and as painless as possible. God bless Dude and those kids.
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Karl, thanks for following up with her. It’s so hard to hear, but it’s good to know.
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Lisa, may you not have to suffer much longer. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Karl, thank you for the update.
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I hope you’re taken with speed to what lies ahead.
Thank you for being.
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Keeping Lisa and her family in my prayers. May God be with you call during this difficult time.
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Fuck.
I knew this was coming, but I wasn’t prepared to hear it. I probably never would be.
Thanks for keeping us in the loop, Karl.
We love you, Lisa.
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I don’t know what to say. I read this in the car on my phone and teared up immediately. I wish I lived closer so I could cook and send food to Dude and the girls. Take care, Lisa…. God speed you on your journey.
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I wish I could do more. Lisa and her family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am praying her pain and suffering end. I am praying for Dude and the girls too.
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Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, Lisa. May you go peacefully, knowing you are loved.
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Lisa, my life will always be a bit better for having found your blog, and you. Thank you for sharing your goodness and love with all of us. You gave so much of yourself away to others during your life on earth that I know without a doubt you will be blessed with unending peace in heaven. God bless you and your family
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Thanks for the update, Karl.
My thoughts and prayers are with Lisa and her family.
xoxo
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To Lisa & Family,
I just learned about your blog via a friend’s tweet and I’m sorry I didn’t make it here sooner in life to learn more about you and your voice. My heart breaks for you and your family; I wish you all peace. -Christine
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OMG It’s so sad.
Prayers for peace to Lisa,Dude and the kids.
And for you too Karl. ((hugs))
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I can’t believe it’s happening. I do believe that there are things worse than death, no one should suffer like this. Godspeed Lisa.
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Many prayers for Lisa to find peace in these her last moments.
I am so thankful that she and her family had that trip to DisneyWorld together.
And Karl thank you as well.
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Dude, Cam and Teenie,
I am praying right now, for all of you, and your mom. Lisa brought life and laughter into her life story. She was honest and she was open.
I pray that her last moments, are peaceful, and that you will always have good memories of her. My only regret, is that I never got a chance to meet her in person. I am not far (about an hour away). Praying for all of you….
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Thank you for updating us Karl. I have no words………..Dude, Lisa and the girls – you are ALL in my prayers.
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an occasional reader here – but I wish Lisa peace in her final resting place, and comfort for dude and the girls.
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This post just broke my heart. I started reading this blog about a month ago. I’m sorry I missed out on so much about this wonderful, lovely, strong lady. Dude, kids, I am definitely praying for you.
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Rest in peace, dear Lisa. Thank you for sharing your courageous life with us. May we remember to carry your spirit forward and be as generous with our lives as you were.
“I sit and watch as tears go by…” the Stones
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Tears here in MA for Lisa and her family.
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GOD held out HIS hand and took Lisa long ago… it is only her shell left for us to morn and say our good-byes.
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God’s Love be with you now and forever.
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Praying for Lisa’s peace. Praying for her husband’s strength. Praying that her children will always know how much their mother loves them.
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I don’t know what to say. Just wanted to add to the outpouring of love and support.
Thankyou for keeping us updated. Sending love across the ocean.
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I saw the blog post title in my feed and my heart just sank.
I’ve only been following a short time, but what a blessing Lisa has been. Karl, thank you so much for keeping us all in the loop. I know you’ve said this is nowhere near as difficult as what Lisa is going through, and I do believe you, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, too. I wish I was local to Lisa, Dude, and the girls to bring them some home-cooked love…
Lisa, my dear, you are transitioning from one place where you are most loved to another where you will be most loved. Thank you for who you are, your amazing walk on this earth, and the story of authenticity and courage you are telling with every moment of your life. I can’t wait to finally meet you and hug you when I get to the other side of the heavens. .
And all my love to Cam, Teenie, and Dude. No one is blessing her more right now than you three, and I have you all in my heart and prayers.
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May God hold take her in his arms, hold her close and assist in the transition between life and the ever after.
Dude, Cam and Teenie, hugs all around. Your mom and wife will forever be by your sides. Talk to her when you want to, tell her your secrets and hold her love for you in your hearts.
With prayers and hugs,
Sue
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Thanks, everyone. I turned off comment moderation for the time being. Quite a few comments were being held for approval, and they were all legit comments, so I decided to cut the moderation. I guess you could say I’m moderate about moderation.
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I’m so sorry and so sad to hear this…. Blessings to Lisa and her family.
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Thank you Karl for the update, I’ve been checking many times a day lately to see how she was doing. I’m so sad about the news.
I’m praying for her and for all her family, specially the girls and Dude.
Hugs from Florida
FERNANDA
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Thank you, Karl. My prayers are with Lisa and her family.
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“Our death is not an end if we can live on in our children and the younger generation. For they are us; our bodies are only wilted leaves on the tree of life.”
Albert Einstein
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Thank you for the update, Karl.
Lisa, Dude, Cam and Teenie I pray you find the peace you so richly deserve.
My love is with all of you.
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My heart breaks. Mine is that of a stranger, one whom feels your situation deeply. One who is a brand new mommy and could not imagine saying goodbye to her young, her husband.
I am truly saddened. My heart is just broken.
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Praying for peace for Lisa and strength for all of those friends and family surrounding her.
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My prayers are going out to Lisa and her family.
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My thoughts are with her, her family and her friends.
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Thank you so much for keeping us updated. My heart is breaking for Lisa and all who love her.
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Thank you, Karl, for keeping us updated.
My thoughts are with Lisa’s family right now. I can’t imagine what the girls and Dude are going through.
I hope she goes peacefully. No one should go through that pain.
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So sad, so so sad….
Heartbreaking…
Bless her family……..
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Part of me keeps hoping I’ll come over and she’ll be ok. Then the rest of me knows that this is real and my heart breaks.
My thoughts are with you Lisa.
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Much love to Lisa, Dude, Teenie and Cam.
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Peace be with you, Lisa.
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I am praying for Lisa and her family.
May the good Lord take her home quickly so she can finally be at peace.
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I’ve been out of town and something made me come over. I am so glad I did. Sending more prayers to you, Lisa, and your family.
<3
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Prayers going out to Lisa and her family. It makes it even more heartbreaking to hear she is in so much pain.
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Believing the time is coming and having it come are different things.
I know. I understand.
There is not much that can prepare for what Lisa and her family for what they are going through right now.
My heart and thoughts are with you…I will pray for peace for all, someday…
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Vaya con Dios, mi amada.
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My heart goes out to your and your family. You will be missed.
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Praying for God’s perfect peace for Lisa and her family.
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Thank you Karl -
My prayers are with you – may your suffering ease –
Judy
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I’ve been watching my feed reader and when I opened it today and saw there was something new here my heart soared. It then quickly broke when I read Karl’s update.
I want to thank Lisa for sharing her life with me, with us. I want to tell her family how sorry I am for what’s happened, and I hope Lisa’s pain is over soon.
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Thanks, Karl. I so much wish I could do something, anything to help, but I think for now I should stay out of the way. And pray. And cry. And pray some more. Keep us updated as you are able.
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Thank the Universe for this time with Lisa and peace.
Peace.
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This is not the end and she is not gone. She has made such an impact on so many people that it is impossible to see this as the end. She will always be with us all. Karl, thank you for the update.
Lisa, I love you with all my heart. I will miss you and will always think of you.
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Sadness.
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Thank you, Karl. <3
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I am lifting her up in prayer tonight, as well as her family and her extended blog family. Lisa is a special person and she is about to embark on one amazing adventure in the afterlife.
Peace – and thanks for being her power of blog…D
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Thanks so much for keeping us updated.
My heart goes out to Lisa…and her family. I wish her peace.
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Lisa is one of the bravest of the brave…. God willing we all will meet our deaths on Earth with such courage, grace and yes, humour. My love and prayers go out to Lisa and her friends and family.
Karl, you are an amazing man – Lisa chose the right person to assist her – and all of us in handling these latest notes.
I never met either of you, but you have my utmost respect, admiration and love.
Dear Lisa, God will welcome you with open arms.
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Secondhand Karl Reply:
February 24th, 2009 at 9:37 pm
Glad to help.
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my prayers are going out for peace for lisa and strength and love for her family.
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Thinking of all of you in this difficult time.
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lisa spoke several times about fearing that she will be forgotten. through tears of sorrow at the news that it is not long now, somehow i am so very thankful that all of these comments here prove what i kept saying to lisa: you will never be forgotten. we are thankful you shared your humor, your love of your family and your strength while fighting the ultimate fight…you won’t be forgotten. you are loved. so very loved.
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Dammit. I kept hoping there’d be some sort of eleventh hour miracle.
Lisa, I hope you don’t have to suffer much longer.
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Secondhand Karl Reply:
February 24th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Yeah, me too. Seems like just yesterday I was hanging with her at TequilaCon 08.
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Praying for Lisa and peace. Praying for her family as well.
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My love and prayers are with Lisa, Dude, Cam & Teenie. May God give Lisa relief from her pain and peace that He will always be with Dude, Teenie and Cam. I pray God’s comforting arms envelopes each of them in His love and comfort.
God speed, Lisa. You have profoundly touched so many lives, in life and through your blog. You and your family will always be in my families hearts and prayers and thoughts.
Love to all of you,
Teri
PS. Thank you Karl for being her voice during this heart wrenching time. God Bless you for your love and supportive friendship to this special and much loved, beautiful lady.
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Thank you, Karl. I had to go thru this with a loved one. You are doing great. I admire you for taking on the responsibility of this blog.
We all need to pray for Lisa to be pain free until she is ready to leave. Then pray that God takes her to sit beside him and let her be a guardian angel to her family.
Like others, I kept hoping for that miracle. To us, she will always be funny, beautiful, and brave.
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thanks for the update, karl. it had been awhile since her last post, and i kinda knew why.
if you talk to dude again and she’s still alive, please tell him to have her hospice nurse do something about upping her meds. she needs to be as close to overdosing as possible now, pretty much all the time.
my heart aches for her and her family.
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Damn.
I’ve been coming here daily…hoping to hear some good news.
We’re all praying here for your swift transition, Lisa. And for strength and comfort for Dude and the girls.
God’s waiting with open arms, Lisa.
Thanks for doing this for everyone, Karl. It must be tearing you up, as well.
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I pray for the peace of God and His holy angels to surround Lisa’s bed — and the hearts & minds of her loved ones — as she is in these final days of her journey here in this life.
All my love,
Ginger
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I’m so sorry to be reading this. And I’m at a loss for words…
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Sending many hugs and prayers to Lisa and her family.
Lisa is an incredible woman, wife, and mother…and will be greatly missed by not only her family, but the blogging community. Lisa, you will never be forgotten.
Hugs to Dude and the girls, may you all find peace.
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Lisa, I didn’t comment here, but I did read, and I feel like I know you through mutual friends.
Wishing you peace and no more pain.
Dude and the kids, I’m so sorry, and I hope you are okay through this horrible time.
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Dear karl,
I really thanyour for your update. I wasnt expecting one from lisa but you cant help but worry and hope she is not in pain ect. Im praying for her pain to be over now and even more for her kids that they are loved and looked after in this shitful time. Thankyou for taking the time to do this you are a good friend to her.
Elesha in Australia
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I remember my dad in his final days… we prayed for him to go quickly. I hope everyone in your household doesn’t have to suffer too long, Dude. It won’t get easier for a long time, as I’m sure you’re aware. Hold on to your families, friends and daughters. That’s what they’re there for.
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I’ve been reading her blog for a while now, but never commented. My thoughts are with her and family.
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Thanks for letting us know. I have been thinking about Lisa and wondering how things were going. I hope that her suffering ends soon, for her sake and that of her family.
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I read the title of this post and my heart sank. It’s so sad. It is comforting to know she is surrounded by family, but I can’t imagine what they are going through. Lisa and her family are in my thoughts.
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God bless your babies, Lisa. God bless your Dude. I will offer up my prayers for all of you at mass today.
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Lisa, Dude and the girls are added to my prayers.
I’m sure she’s surrounded by love and peace right now.
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I have never posted here before, but read Lisa’s blog ALL the time!
May she rest in peace, go Lisa, be with the angels.
To her family my love and prayers to you all!
Kathy
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We’re praying, Karl. Thank you for letting us know — many of us have been checking in every day, hoping for another post from Lisa. It must have been a tough post for you to write.
This all feels so unreal. I have to keep reminding myself that this *is* real life…simply a part of it that we had hoped would be many years in the future.
The Lord bless you and keep you, Lisa. Shine on.
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Lisa, Dude and girls…
I’m sorry this journey was so short for you all. Stick together and it will be okay. Your Mom made the best of things in a crappy situation!
All the best for all of you, everyday.
May you all have peace.
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Oh this is too hard ….. go easy, Lisa.
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Hi. I haven’t followed this blog long, but I’ve wanted to keep track of how things were going, knowing the end was inevitable, but not wanting it to come. Damn cancer, damn it and everything it stands for. I will think of Lisa and her family. It sounds like in her short life, she’s managed to touch a lot of people.
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GOD BLESS YOU LISA.
And may he wrap up your family and hold them tight
and help them be stronger and at peace with you not here.
XO
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Lisa,
I know you can feel our prayers and thoughts for you and your family. And I know you’re thankful for Karl.
It’s OK to go, Lisa. Hugs to Dude and the girls.
Mary
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(Karl, I left my comment that had a link in it and it went into the spam folder. Just FYI if you have time to check it. I’ll post it without the link below. Thank you for all you’re doing, and I am keeping you in my prayers as well as I know this is hard for you too).
God bless your babies, Lisa. God bless your Dude. I will offer up my prayers for all of you at mass today.
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I read this yesterday and immediately started crying. I couldn’t even comment…
I’m heartbroken. Not for me but for Lisa and her family. I know it’s for the best that it ends sooner rather than later for Lisa and Dude and the girls… I can’t even fathom to imagine what they are all going through. I do know that Lisa will be in a much better place — anything is better than constant pain… I don’t know what I believe is out there, but it comforts me to know that when I go she’ll be there and we’ll have one hell of a party.
I love you Lisa. *HUGS* to those precious little girls and Dude for being there…
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Praying for Dude, Cam and Teeny. It isn’t an easy burden to watch this, or be the ones left behind. My thoughts are with you all.
Go quickly, Lisa.
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Wow! This makes me really sad. Won’t stop thinking about this for a while.
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I can only pray that the pain goes away and Lisa can leave this life peacefully, leaving a wonderful, wonderful memory for her loved ones.
And Karl, thank you for telling us and being such a wonderful friend to Lisa, Dude and their girls. I know this is not an easy job.
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Shit. I’ve been dreading a post like this. Lisa & her family are in my thoughts.
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dear lisa i wish you a peaceful journey, I am sure your strength and light will make everything clearer for those who are closer to you, although not less painful, I am afraid. to have met with you here has been like the first flower of spring and often a good laugh too. you made me less afraid of dying, and suffering, and i will be always thankful. There is not much I can say, but to all your family and you I send all my love and thoughts and any image of beauty my eyes shall linger on in the next days. these will be my prayers for you.
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Thank you Karl for your kind loving support of Lisa to accept her Power of Blog. You’re doing a stellar job.
Father in Heaven, please wrap Your peaceful loving arms around Lisa and bring her home to join You, in Your Grace and time. Please ease her pain. I hold her family up to You for You to hold them close to Your heart in their time of extreme emotional pain. Amen.
I love you Lisa, thanks for your honesty and bravery in the valiant fight you fought for so long. Peace be with you sister.
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Travel lightly into the Light. Open the door and let the Light fall on your family as you go.
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I will keep Lisa, dude and the kids in my thoughts.
Karl, thank you for keeping us up to date. *hug*
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Lisa and her family have been in my meditative thoughts, and will continue to be.
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I knew the day would come when I would read the end was here, but it still makes me sad when someone is taken from our midest. I will pray for Lisa’s spirit, Dude and the kids.
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Karl,
Forgive me if you know this….if not, perhaps you may appreciate it.
Knowing a bit about this journey as a result of helping my 11 year old daughter transistion to the other side due to her brain cancer, I wanted to point out that hearing is one of the last abilities to leave our bodies.
I say that in case you have anything else to say…you can still make the call and and likely be heard.
Godspeed….
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I’m a pretty new reader, but was so hopeful something would change and I would read good news here. The mother of two girls myself, I can only imagine what you all are going through. I’m just so, so sorry.
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Lisa,
I’m so sorry you have to leave so soon, but I know you’ll be ok. Wishing you peace and love.
Dude,
Wishing you peace and strength for you and the girls. This is undoubtedly the hardest thing you’ll ever face. Hold on to each other and know you have prayers coming to you from all over the world.
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So, so hard. Prayers to her family and friends.
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I’ve been praying daily since my last visit here. May her journey be swift and painless, and may she be welcomed into the arms of the loved ones who have preceded her. I’m sure they will hold her close as they make their way to the next leg of her journey.
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Lisa,
Please know that you are and will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Your friendship means the world to me. I love you.
Nancy
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So very tragic and so sad. Prayers to Lisa for a peaceful passing, and to her family and friends who will inevitably feel the huge void left when she’s gone.
And thanks to you Karl. I can’t imagine how difficult this is/has been for you, yet I know you wouldn’t have given up the opportunity for anything. Thanks so much for keeping us posted.
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I wondered when we hadn’t heard from her in a while. My heart’s broken for Lisa’s family, but I pray she is relieved of her pain quickly, so their family’s healing can begin.
God Bless Lisa, Dude and the girls.
~Les
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Goodbye, Lisa. You will be remembered forever.
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Thank you for the update Karl – I am praying not only for a merciful passing for Lisa, but also for the family and loved ones who will be left behind.
I’m a newer reader here and only began reading in January, but from what I’ve read in the archives, she loved her family more than anything else. I’m glad that they have her writings to read as they grow.
Peace be with you all.
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Lisa, rest well, my friend.
Dude and the girls, be strong. Love each other.
xxxooo
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My thoughts and prayers to Dude and the girls as well as my deepest hopes that Lisa goes peacefully, painlessly, and with grace.
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I miss you, Lisa. Hugs and prayers for you, your family and friends.
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I don’t know Lisa. I just came upon her blog a few days ago by accident. I feel that I came across her blog for a reason. It helped me realize how lucky I am and how greatfull I have to remember to be for everything I have. She’s my age. I am married and have a nine year old daughter. I cannot imagine what she and her family are going through. I do not pray, but she and her family are in my thoughts. I hope that Lisa does not have to suffer much longer.
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I’m so so sorry, I really don’t know what else to say. I wish I lived locally so I could help out in some way. Poor Lisa, poor Dude, poor girls. All I can really say is that I hope she is taken peacefully and painlessly. My thoughts and prayers are with Lisa and her family. I really hope her pain ends soon
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Peace be with Lisa, Dude, Cam and Teenie.
Thank you, Karl.
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Lisa was one of the first people I followed on Twitter–drawn by the common experience of cancer. My heart breaks for the family of this brave and beautiful soul—and I feel enriched that she let so many of us enter her life—even from afar. Comfort to her family.
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I’m praying… both for Lisa and her family. This suffering is horrible.
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I’ll be sending good thoughts and vibes to Lisa and her family. I know how it feels to watch a loved one slip away and into a shell of their former self. Just remember there are people out here that care!
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This is really so sad. I discovered this blog just a few days ago and was hoping to leave an encouraging word for her in her next post. Now it’s too late. I will pray for her and her family.
God bless!
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My heart is breaking for her family. God speed, Lisa. I will miss you.
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I’ve never been to this blog before, but I wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to Lisa and Dude and family. Especially for Lisa as she moves through the last part of her journey. I am praying for her.
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I just heard. I’m so sorry. Deepest sympathies to Lisa’s family.
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A day hasn’t gone by that I haven’t thought of Lisa and her family…the word “clusterfook” has popped into my head at random times each day reminding me to think and pray for Lisa and all of those who are struggling in this terrible fight. My heart hurts tonight; thoughts and memories of my own struggles bubble up as I sit and pray for Lisa, Dude, and the girls. Lisa’s candid words will stay with me long after she is gone. I strive to be as real and genuine as her.
God Bless and Godspeed Lisa…you will be with us forever.
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Oh, I am thinking of Lisa, Dude and her girls, and am saying prayers for them all.
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My heart shatters at this news. I am praying for peace for all of you. Lisa, my you leave us knowing how loved you are. I am so sorry to her girls and Dude. So sorry!
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Wow, this was far sooner than I thought it would be, and I’m affected more than I thought I’d be. My thoughts are with the entire family, and I hope for a quick and easy passing for Lisa.
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It is time to rest.
Cancer really does suck.
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May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Godspeed Lisa.
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Some people come into our lives… and quickly leave.
AND we forget them quickly!
Some people come into our lives… walk around for a while and leave.
AND we forget them quickly!
But some people come into our lives… walk around, snuggle in and make themselves part of our lives…
AND they leave footprints on our hearts,,, and we will never forget them!
Thank you, GOD,,, for giving all of us your priceless treasure, LISA !
We can all understand why GOD want’s her back sooo soon~
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No. Just … no.
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Sorry. My hand accidentally hit enter too quickly. I hate, hate, hate to hear this. I’ve only known Lisa a year, and through this blog, but I will miss her terribly,
Lisa spoke the truth about cancer, love, and life. Thank you, Lisa, and family and friends, for sharing so much with us.
I will continue to pray for you….
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Sending out lots of prayers for her and her family.
Bless you
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I am sending lots of prayers out for her and her famliy <3
Bless you Lisa
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I’m a new reader, too, and this post made me want to cry and scream “It’s not fair!” Damn cancer!
You and your family are surrounded by much love. I pray that your passing will be peaceful. <3
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This was my first visit, intrigued by the blog title.
I wasn’t expecting this. Lisa was so brave to write about her battle, in a way that only people who are living with cancer can. My Mum was brave too, maybe people die too young to teach the rest of us to be better human beings and appreciate life.
My prayers are on their way, God Bless you all.
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It breaks my heart hearing this news. My condolences to Lisa’s family. God bless you all.
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