Lisa’s Funeral Arrangements

by Secondhand Karl on March 1, 2009

in Cancer Sucks, Dude, It Is What It Is

Hey gang. Just got off the phone with Dude and he’s feeling brain dead and like he’s on autopilot. Understandable.

Here are the funeral arrangements for Lisa for those that wish to go or send flowers.

Lisa Gift Kelly

Saturday, March 7th

1:00 PM

Immaculate Conception church, 905 Chestnut St, Douglasville, PA

DONATIONS

Right, thanks to all of you that have emailed me and left comments requesting a way to donate to Lisa’s family. There are a couple of ways to go about this:

Use the Donation Button on Lisa’s Donations page. I’ve changed the Paypal address over to her husband’s address so he has access to the account.

Flowers are wonderful, of course, but for those that want to donate to causes close to Lisa’s heart, perhaps you’d care to view the list of organizations on her Ovarian Cancer page. A donation in her name would be great.

I hope this gives you a couple of options for those of you that want to do something more. John appreciates all the kind words and support. He says the girls are doing well.

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1 derfina 03.01.09 at 4:57 pm

Thank you so much, Karl. I know I’m not the only one who will appreciate this info. *smooches*

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2 Sybil Law 03.01.09 at 5:25 pm

xoxo

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3 Nina 03.01.09 at 5:31 pm

Thanks Karl.

Ninas last blog post..What we know

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4 Avitable 03.01.09 at 6:32 pm

Karl, do you know the funeral home’s name?

Avitables last blog post..Rest in Peace

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5 jessica 03.01.09 at 6:41 pm

Please pass this information on to John…

http://www.ywbb.org.

As a young widow I found it most helpful.

RIP Lisa.

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6 Velma 03.01.09 at 8:35 pm

Thanks, Karl, for keeping this going and for what that meant to Lisa.

Velmas last blog post..Mah Baby! She’s Gittin’ So BIG!

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7 Karen Sugarpants 03.01.09 at 8:40 pm

Thanks K.

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8 Christine 03.01.09 at 10:21 pm

Thank you Karl. I think I am going to try to get to the funeral…

Christines last blog post..An off topic quicky!

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9 The Other Elle 03.01.09 at 11:12 pm

{{{hugs}}} Karl.
Thanks.

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10 Lorrie Krasnoff 03.01.09 at 11:28 pm

We are not having a viewing ,
it was Lisa’s wish .

Lisa was cremated today .

Saturday , March 2 ,will be a Mass Of Christian Burial followed by the immediate interment of her ashes at Immaculate Conception Cemetary

Thankyou for all of your kind wishes and words of condolence .

Lorrie Krasnoff ( Lisa’s mother )

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11 perpstu 03.01.09 at 11:29 pm

Thank you Karl. Your willingness to be attorney of blog for Lisa has been amazing. I appreciate all the information you have kept giving out!

perpstus last blog post..Weekly Winners #3

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12 BeeBee 03.02.09 at 6:09 am

Dear Ms. Krasnoff,

I am so sorry for your loss, you raised a very wonderful human being who taught us a lot about the meaning of life and will long be remembered for her funny, wise and honest posts, for one.

Dear Dude and the girls. So sorry, there are no words. I hope you one day will be able to find peace with this (?) and cherish the good memories.

Karl, thank you for this hard job you do. You do it so well.

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13 Yvonne 03.02.09 at 8:35 am

God Bless you all.
My heart has been heavy thinking of Lisa’s girls.
I pray for dude and the girls peace and comfort
and I know Lisa is in a great place healthy and whole.

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14 Turnbaby 03.02.09 at 9:46 am

Thank you to Lisa’s family for allowing us to celebrate her life with you.

Thank you to Karl for taking on this difficult task.

Turnbabys last blog post..Your Hands

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15 Mrs. Schmitty 03.02.09 at 10:40 am

I just found out this morning. I am truly sorry, but am glad she is no longer in any more pain.

My heart goes out to Dude and the girls. You are all in my prayers.

Mrs. Schmittys last blog post..Just Ignore Those Subliminal Messages

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16 Tracy 03.02.09 at 12:11 pm

Was “Gift” her middle or maiden name? She truly was one.

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17 Dawn 03.02.09 at 1:48 pm

Tracy — I was about to ask the same thing and thought, wow, how amazing, because she was a real gift.

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18 mike golch 03.02.09 at 1:54 pm

I came her from a blog I follow,I wish I could have been here sooner and got to know Lisa,My condolence on her loss.

mike golchs last blog post..Aww..Monday

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19 Lorrie Krasnoff 03.02.09 at 1:54 pm

Lisa was christened :

Lisa Ann Gift

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20 defendUSA 03.02.09 at 2:37 pm

Mrs. K,
I got goosebumps when I read that. Lisa was truly a gift to many who have never met her. Me included. I got an email from her in regard to my friend Dave who has cancer on February 13th. She was telling me she was sorry to hear that he had a stroke and hoped they were not treating symptoms that made it worse. It made me feel good to know she could still write.
This may seem a long way off for you, but I’ll put it out there, anyway. My friend Pat lost her son to suicide in December. She is a blogger who writes great fiction stories as well as other stuff. She started writing again, and is beginning to feel part of the world again. Her son was 39.
If you ever feel like you want to share some stories about Lisa, maybe it will help you in your grieving process.
It’s a legacy, hers, this blog. And I know that when people pass, they are afraid of being forgotten. I will never be able to see or eat Jelly Bellies that are red, white and blue without thinking of her, or corn candy. I ate some last nite from my secret stash. :)

I hope everyone is leaning on each other and doing alright. Denise

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21 BlondeBlogger 03.02.09 at 7:01 pm

Thank you, Mrs. Krasnoff, for letting us know, but most of all for the gift of your daughter. My prayers are with you.

BlondeBloggers last blog post..Be Free, My Friend

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22 Beth 03.02.09 at 8:38 pm

–sigh– Clusterfook was the first blog I found and read, continued to read. Still don’t know much about the blogging community but how weird is it that I feel like I really knew Lisa. Felt as if, it had been too long since we had had coffee together, yet, we had never had coffee together. And I lived only a couple hours from her. I can only hope that lots of folks learned, and felt Lisa’s love like I did. She will remain an inspiration to me. I feel really honored that Lisa sent me an email a while back. That she took the time to email me? And I’d felt so insignificant……ya, she sure will be remembered with honor and love.

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23 Black Belt Mama 03.03.09 at 9:27 am

Hi everyone,

I’m a local so I wanted to let you all know that you can find Lisa’s obituary online here: http://www.legacy.com/ReadingEagle/Obituaries.asp?Page=Lifestory&PersonId=124833763

If you click on the guest book, you can leave a message for the family that the family can then save and print. I thought it might be nice if all of these condolences got over there somehow.

Black Belt Mamas last blog post..Yet Another Reason to Boycott McDonald’s

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24 won 03.03.09 at 9:33 am

Mrs Krasnoff.

I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to you, from one grieving mother to another. The order of this is so unnatural and unforgiving. I have an idea of what you might be feeling.

Please feel free to reach out to me if I can ever offer a non judgemental ear of shoulder to cry on.

Until then, just keep breathing. Sometimes, it’s all we can do and all we need to do.

won2xx@gmail.com

Godspeed….

Angel Olivia Grace’s Mom

wons last blog post..~~~The Reason She Told Me That~~~

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25 BlondeBlogger 03.04.09 at 3:42 am

I had an idea of another way we could honor Lisa and I hope it’s okay that I post it here (not sure where else I could ask for help with it). Would any blogger out there be able to make a memorial button dedicated to Lisa that we bloggers could post in our sidebars permanently? The buttons would link to Lisa’s blog of course.

I’m not good with graphics and wouldn’t know how to make one so I’m hoping someone out there could do it. Thank you.

BlondeBloggers last blog post..Britney Spears’ Circus in New Orleans…ZOMGosh!!

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Secondhand Karl Reply:

Good idea. I know enough to be dangerous, but I’m sure someone else has far greater skills than I.

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BlondeBlogger Reply:

Maybe we can ask for someone to make one during the memorial show on Saturday?

This was done for a friend of mine who passed in 2007 (also a young mother and also cancer):

http://nattierosewrites.com/mt/

Her family has the “power of blog” and keeps her spirit alive like you will be doing for Lisa. I thought it might give you a little bit of inspiration and that Lisa’s family could reach out to them if they’d like when they’re ready. Her kids could even be of help to Cam and Teenie.

Just thinking out loud…..I wish I could do more to help.

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